I spent my entire 20s following the typical set of expectations society holds for us. I went to college and didn’t study a useless degree. I graduated and immediately got a well paying job in NYC that I didn’t love or hate. I fell in love with a toxic man and experienced incredibly traumatic heartache. I even bounced around from one job to another because I simply didn’t know what I wanted to do. What didn’t help also was the fact that changing companies always increased my pay.

I followed what I call the Millennial Dream. Back in 2013 when…

Suey Chai

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